From: Culver City, CA
      Tuesday, 12:30 P.M.

Dear Friend and Subscriber,

With all my recent involvement with computers and the Internet 
and such, I like to compare Speed Seduction to software packages. 

What most of you have seen or used so far is the first and 
second generation stuff. It's damn good. I'm proud of it. But 
like anything new and innovative it has it's bugs, errors and 
flaws which my best students and I have been working like crazy 
to correct.

(By the way, you'll notice that I don't claim to be perfect, 
admit to mistakes, and give fair credit to everyone who has 
helped contribute with their own great ideas. Some of you 
students(Glen, Mark, Jason, Dave, Taylor among them) have 
been so good, I can no longer even consider myself as the 
creator of Speed Seduction; I now think I'm only the Chief 
Co-Developer. I deeply appreciate the input and encourage you 
to continue. As for you lazy asses who have not contributed..get 
off your fat behinds and write me, fuck-heads!)

In this issue, I'm going to cover two or three of the major 
sticking points in the early "Speed Seduction" stuff and show 
you how to quickly and easily correct them so you find this 
stuff flows effortlessly and smoothly in every situation and 
circumstance.

1.Fixing Problems with "Have You Ever"...

One of the basic Speed Seduction Principles is...

...... Every Decision And Every Behavior(Like Slurping Your 
Weenie) That You Want From A Woman Is STATE Dependent!!

That's pretty easy to understand, isn't it? If a kid want something 
from a parent, like a toy or a trip to Disneyland, the kid, 
observes closely and...

Waits Til The Parent's In A Good Mood To Pounce!

Ok. So nothing mystical about "have you ever".

It's just designed to induce the state or mood you want, like 
fascination, incredible connection, etc.

Now, the way it's supposed to work is, when you use "have you 
ever felt an incredible connection", for example, is that the 
poor little female in question has to stop, go inside her own 
imagination, and begin to remember a time when she DID feel just 
that.

But hey, just because that's what it is designed to do, doesn't 
mean that is what always happens.
	
Most students, eventually run into these three problems when they 
use "have you ever":

1. The girl just starts blabbing on, talking up a storm, not 
letting you get a word in edge wise, but shows NO sign of going 
into the state.

2. She answers by saying, "No...I haven't!". In other words 
she HASN'T had the experience or state you are describing.

3. She just sits there and listens, but you don't get the 
"doggie-dinner bowl" look. There just seems to be no response.

Let's deal with the first problem first: some girls LOVE to talk.  
Now, that's not necessarily a problem, provided you know how to 
listen and can direct the conversation back to the topic at hand 
or direct her to telling you what you need to know about her to 
seduce her.

The most important thing to understand about ANY of these problem 
situation is: RELAX. We've come up with great ways to handle 
these "bugs" in the program. Just make sure you  don't press an 
approach that isn't working....just redirect her in to something 
else.  No need to hurry or push..in fact, my number one rule is:

I Never Hurry Or Push Until I No Longer Need To!

In other words, done right, you won't have to hurry or push or 
do anything else, cause she jumps on YOU!

The best solution to the "blabbermouth" problem, is to use 
"have you ever" to bring up the topic, and then...

Immediately Switch To Talking About SOMEONE ELSE'S Experience!

Now, look: this is an incredibly powerful switch, and one of the 
main differences with the updated Speed Seduction. By talking about 
someone else(your fictional "friend" Colleen or Kim, let's say), 
even the biggest motor mouth usually shuts up, because it's 
considered rude to talk about yourself when someone is talking 
to you about a third party. You can then proceed to "program" her 
with all sorts of embedded commands using your "friend's" experience 
as the delivery vehicle.

As to the second situation, where she says, "No...I haven't"...all 
you have to do is AGREE with her.  Say something to the effect that 
YOU haven't either, but you've got this friend, Kim, see who......

Get where this is going? You can INSTALL an experience she hasn't 
had by describing someone else's.

Now, in the third case...where she just SITS there and doesn't 
seem to respond.  It could be any one of a number of things. 

Maybe she's just a SLOW processor. She has to take her time to 
go inside and follow along. You'll find this taking place now 
and again, so give her time to co-operate with you.

Maybe she's just shut down inside, and is afraid of experiencing 
ANY kind of intense, powerful feelings. (May as well find out 
right away, when it costs you nothing, instead of after a dozen 
dates and $1000 in the hole, right?).

Maybe she just things you're an asshole.(Just testing to see if 
you are awake.)

If slowing down doesn't work, take a good look at her eyes. 
Does she appear drunk or stoned? If so...forget about this 
stuff working. Wait til she sobers up.

There is, of course, another possibility, which is that she is 
just a highly visual woman, who needs to make big, bright pictures 
in her mind before she feels things. What I would suggest here is 
that you do the first few steps of the "Blammo" pattern to get her 
attention(without going on to the sexual stuff) and then move on 
to talking about connections and feelings and such.  (There are 
other methods, too detailed to go into here, but if you'd like a 
FREE transcript of a discussion I had with two advanced students, 
where I describe what to do in detail, just call Yates at 
703-791-6421 and he'll mail it right out to you, no charge at all.)  

2. Dealing With "Reluctant" Women

When you do Speed Seduction, you'll occasionally run into what I 
call "reluctant" women.  These are women who either won't easily 
or freely give you information about themselves or aren't 
comfortable with feeling strong emotions.

Dealing with the second problem first, these women are what I call 
"information horders".  They are like mistrustful poker players, 
who hold their cards close to their amply filled vests, lest anyone 
sneak a peak at the hand they are going to play.

If you've ever tried asking a woman about her values in a relationship 
and gotten mostly silence, then you've got an info-horder on your 
hands. THESE WOMEN WILL NOT GIVE OUT ANY VALUABLE INFORMATION ABOUT 
THEMSELVES UNLESS THEY ALREADY FEEL SOME KIND OF CONNECTION WITH YOU!

This can be an especial problem if you're initially starting out, 
attempting to create the connection by gathering this info.  No 
connection...no info.

The second category of women just don't feel comfortable with strong 
emotions. Sometimes it's a control issue; sometimes a trust thing.

The solution, in either case , is to "loosen them up" or "lubricate" 
them by installing a mild-altered state...a state strong enough to 
make them suggestible, and much more open, but not so much that it 
will scare them off.

With that, I give you my PEAK EXPERIENCES pattern. You can use this 
to install altered states and test the waters in virtually any 
situation...

You:  Can you remember the last time you had a peak experience? 
Like climbing a mountain...or watching a beautiful sunset...or 
the first time you looked at someone(point to yourself) and 
recognized YOU REALLY LOVE THIS PERSON(point to yourself again).

Her: Sure....

You: What was that like?

(Here you should SHUT THE FUCK UP and let her describe it....
and LISTEN carefully. She'll give away LOTS of information).

You: That's really interesting. You know, I find it so neat how 
YOUR MINE can be going along in one direction, you know in an 
everyday ordinary state, and then SUDDENLY for whatever MYSTERIOUS 
reason, you just GO INTO A MUCH DIFFERENT STATE...a state where YOUR 
MINE is so in touch with the MYSTERY and the WONDER and the beauty of 
life(point to yourself, dumbshit!)  And sometimes it's like in YOUR 
MINE, you just SLOW TIME DOWN, and the whole world stops, as you just 
LET YOURSELF GO WITH THIS(point to yourself). Can you FEEL THAT
(reach out and touch anchor) is an incredible thing to experience..
WITH ME..NOW, I know that for a lot of people different things can 
trigger that.


Her: God...yeah...I LOVE the way you talk...it's like your inside 
my soul.

You: Well, thank you dumbshit...er..ah...Debbie. And you know, 
for a lot of people falling in love, or orgasm are peak experiences, 
but for me, it's music. Like, the other night I was listening to 
Mozart, and I don't know if you are familiar with him or not, but 
some of his stuff is just a series of short little musical 
segments...like little pecks on the cheek, and with some of his 
stuff those segments just GET LAID Debbie, from end to end, and 
keep getting repeated. But his really great stuff is composed of 
these long, slow, lingering movements...they're like long, slow, 
lingering kisses...long slow lingering caresses, and you just FEEL 
ALL OF THAT ALL OVER YOUR BODY when you LISTEN...TO ME..NOW..it's 
an incredible thing...you know.

Ok...now then, this induces a pretty damn loosened up, altered 
state and you've already dropped in a few good sexual metaphors 
too. What's CRITICAL is you speak slowly, and make sure you anchor 
when you are getting the responses.

Also...make sure your gestures match what you are talking about.  
Don't make short, choppy gestures if you are talking about long, 
slow, lingering, movements or you'll be dating your hand!

Where could you go from here? Well, pretty much anywhere. You 
could transition to gathering info about her values by saying 
something like, "So..if you could just imagine your ideal, peak 
relationship...what are some of the things that would be important 
to you to be there?".

You could move on to the blow job pattern or incredible connection 
or whatever. The point is...you've greased the tracks so now the 
car's gonna race over it alot more smoothly!

Special Paranoia Corner: Is The U.S. Military Using Speed Seduction 
To DUPE Unsuspecting Women Into Joining the Marines???????????

Recently, while rummaging through my female roommate's desk, I came 
upon a recruitment pamphlet for the USMC, aimed at women. Here are 
selected parts:

"Where is that girl that lived in your mind?"

Whoa..here's a good attempt to induce both:

1. Age regression(note the past tense:LIVED)

2. Set up a hypnotic disassociation/split personality

"Quite often, you wanted to be more like her"

More disassociative languaging!

"She was ponytails to your barrettes

An a-minus to your b-plus

When you threw like a girl

She threw harder"

By describing common experiences of excelling or wanting to 
excel, this language re-induces the desire (gee..is this starting 
to sound a little familiar, kids)to excel again....

"She went by your name and followed you everywhere!"

Whoa! More hypnotic disassociative languaging! And they aren't 
even trying to be subtle.

Now dig this:

"Once upon a time, there was this girl. She had an attitude. 
And a spirit nobody could tame. She was tough and attacked each 
new day without fear. (emphasis added by me:)  SHE WENT BY YOUR 
NAME AND SPOKE WITH A VOICE ONLY YOU COULD HEAR. SHE LIVED IN YOUR 
MIND."

Geez, Murphy! And I thought I was the master hypnotic languager!  

Then, in HUGE letters, the pamphlet says:

FIND HER!


I can just see you students using a variation of this on a 
jaded, bitter woman who has been hurt, thinks all men are 
assholes, etc:

"Where is the girl that lived in your mind? Remember the little 
one; the one that believed in love? Maybe she dreamed of that 
ideal man she'd one day give her heart to, and she knew at that 
moment she dreamt of him, she had already fallen in love. And 
each day, each moment of her lived, she carried that love with 
her in her heart, waiting for the day when it could be released; 
released and given to the one who was worthy.(Point to yourself).

What would it be like to realize that after all the sorrow and 
tears...that person had come along?(point to yourself) If you 
were to LOOK for that girl within your heart and mind..and LISTEN 
to the message...she is sending you..NOW...how do you feel?"

So...am I being paranoid here. Or am I just paying attention?   
I think it just illustrates my point that if you aren't aware of 
these processes they are going to be used AGAINST you by those who 
DO know about them. So wise up and GET STUDYING!



The Mail Bag

Well..we've been getting lots of letters for a change, but most 
of them electronically over the Internet! Here's a great one I got 
the other day!(Reprinted with permission!)

From: R_John_H 
To: "Jeffries, Ross" 
Subject: Excellent Seminar!
Date: Wed, 31 May 95 15:14:00 PDT
Encoding: 26 TEXT
X-Mailer: Microsoft Mail V3.0


I have been using the technology with fantastic results. For the 
most part they don't notice what is happening and I am quite 
amazed by how much they enjoy letting it happen to them.  

I slept with a 21 year old fox last Friday that was all over 
me at a bar that evening saying how much she loved my voice and 
how much she felt so connected to me. We met for coffee once the 
week before and I invited her to go for a short hike.  Sitting under 
the sun after gathering information regarding her values and 
anchoring them (to her left shoulder) I launch into:
     
When you think about the perfect love (pointing to me).  Someone who 
would allow you to FALL DEEPLY IN LOVE, ALISON.  NOW WITH ME I think 
you  would start to FEEL AN INCREDIBLE CONNECTION and SENSE THAT 
TOTAL value,value value (fire off anchor).  And when THAT'S HAPPENING 
WITH ME I find that you quickly discover that all those inhibitions 
and restraints that may have seemed like chains (point away) with 
someone else.  Are now with this  new person (pointing to me), 
thin, fine delicate threads that just snap  (snap your fingers) 
with the touch of a hand (fire off anchor) such that you  begin 
to open yourself up completely and allow someone new to come deep 
inside releasing all those feelings in a flood to the point where 
you come  to the same conclusion over and over again that this 
person is someone you  can imagine years into the future still 
feeling that incredible sense of connection and realizing today 
IS the inevitable start of it wasn't it. 
 
However you would just do that you would begin to feel magically 
enchanted  and so deeply in love you would let yourself go 
completely. Wouldn't it be great to experience that and let 
it happen?


Dear John,

Wow! What a colossal mind-fuck! Good job, buddy. I like the use 
of the sexual metaphors("open yourself" "come deep inside") as 
well as the commands "experience that" "let it happen". Nice work.

John, by the way, attended the New Jersey Advanced Speed Seduction 
Seminar. He's banging 21 year old foxes..who and what are YOU 
doing, dear reader?

Ross's  Special Cyberspace Plug Corner
(Special note: please skip this section if you have NO interest 
in computers or the Internet!)

Ok. Let me mention the Internet for the umpteenth time this 
issue. I am proud to say we not only have our own ftp site 
where you can download newsletters, seminar transcripts and 
other goodies for FREE, 24 hrs a day at ftp.netcom.com  
/pub/le/lewiz/get-laid ( I realize this is only so much gibberish 
to those of you who aren't on the net), but also, thanks to the 
efforts of top student and computer whiz Lewis De Payne,......

We Now Have Our Own World Wide Web Page!

Now look; right now it's only a scratch page. The hyper-text 
links AREN'T up yet. But it's still pretty cool. And pretty soon, 
we'll have the whole damn Ross Jeffries Catalog there, complete 
with pictures of every product and point and click 24 hour credit 
card ordering! 

The current web page address is 						
http://www.earthlink.net/~seduction

We are waiting to hear on approval of our domain name, 
seduction.com, in which case the address will just be 
http://www.seduction.com! E-mail me at sandworm@earthlink.net for 
more details!

Of course, I remind you of my Usenet discussion group, 
alt.seduction.fast, created ESPECIALLY for you fans to post your 
questions, success stories and challenges to me and each other. 
Get your asses in there and support me!


Ross's Normal Plug Corner

Hey, for those of you who missed our New Jersey Advanced Speed 
Seduction Seminar, we are doing another one(the last one in 1995) 
in San Francisco! Yep...the most politically correct city in the 
world gets invaded by me and my best students as we teach you to 
get laid like crazy in the best, most practical NLP training in 
existence!

The dates are September 15, 16, and 17 and there's a $200 discount 
to the first 25 sign-ups, so call Yates now to lock in your 
enrollment. Otherwise you gotta pay the full $895 to attend! 
Use the green enrollment form included with this issue or call 
that lazy ass Yates at 703-791-6421 to sign up right now!

Peace and piece,

Ross

P.S.  We are hard at work on the Summer 95 catalog, so watch for 
it coming your way soon! If you want to send a catalog to a 
friend or friends, make sure you call and let us know their 
name and address! We'll extend your newsletter subscription 
one issue for every name you give us!  So get cracking and 
call us!

P.P.S.  I've finally found a VERY good source for NLP Training 
and Certification, for all of you who have written me asking 
where you can get certified. (Sorry...I don't certify...I just 
show you how to use this stuff to get laid like crazy and make 
tons of money and all that other useless stuff!)  Anyway, they 
are IDHEA seminars out of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and they really 
know their stuff! Spent three hours with their head honcho, Rex 
Steven Sikes swapping NLP war stories and trading secrets, and 
this dude is GOOD! For more info, call them at 414-355-9700. Go 
ahead and try to Speed Seduce his wife, Carolyn, while you're at 
it! She's got the SEXIEST voice I have EVER heard in my life, bar 
none, without exception!