From: Culver City, California
      Tuesday, 2:45 P.M.


Dear Friend and Valued Reader,

Believe it or not, your old pal Ross actually has his critics.  
People who don't like me. People who think I shouldn't be teaching 
you what I'm teaching.

One of the things I hear most often from these morons is something 
along the likes of, "C'mon now, Ross. What you're talking about 
couldn't possibly work. In fact, it sounds like magic."

Now, I don't really care what these pin-heads think. But I am 
concerned that YOU, dear reader, understand what Speed Seduction 
is all about. And it certaintly ISN'T magic.

Now, don't get me wrong. If you're like some of my students when 
they are first starting out and your dick's been drier than a leaf 
in the desert for years and then suddenly you're banging four or 
five incredibly hot women, it might seem like magic.  And to someone 
who doesn't know what you're doing, it will either seem like magic 
or prostitution!!

In fact, Speed Seduction is mechanics. That means it requires a 
certain sequence, set of circumstances and applications in order 
for it to work.

Within that framework, it's massively powerful, but that framework 
still has to be there. Just like a super-charged, perfectly tuned, 
450 horsepower, V-8 engine won't run without the oxygen to burn 
the fuel, Speed Seduction only works when there are certain necessary 
conditions.

Thankfully those conditions have nothing whatsoever to do with your 
looks, age, money, social status or other "externals" outside of 
your control.

In this issue, I'm going to review what those conditions are, and 
how you can use all this to massively increase the quantity and 
quality of your babe hunting.

Condition #1:You've Got To Be In The Right Frame Of Mind

As I've said time and again, the patterns I teach are NOT just 
another high tech way to beg yourself into some girl's pants.  If 
you view them like this, then, even if you deliver them flawlessly 
from a technical standpoint, you are still going to get nowhere 
because your weak-ass, piss-ant, puss-whimp attitude will.....


...Totally Annihilate The Emotional States You Are Attempting To 
Create In Your Subject!

(Hey..did you notice how I'm mellowing out? I said "subject" instead 
of "victim". I must be getting old!)

How does this self-defeating process take place? Simple.  As I have 
said time and again, in any area of life, if you are coming from a 
place of hunger, or need, or desperately trying to prove to yourself 
that you can win again, then you almost certainly guaranteed to fail. 
You'll simply push away the very thing you want and get locked into a 
self-perpetuating "defeat-cycle" that gets you nowhere.

If you want to be hilariously successful with Speed Seduction, then 
you must realize that the patterns aren't about begging.  They aren't 
even really about tricking or misleading.
	
No, sir, the patterns are about being able to create such incredible 
states of pleasure and fun and highs for her that no one else can, 
such that she really WANTS to give you her sexual goodies. They're 
about creating states for her that no one else can.

Viewed like this, that incredible babe you want to bang isn't 
someone you need to fear. She's someone who's about to receive an 
incredible gift from you, a gift she might continue to receive IF 
she's smart enough and hot enough and sexy enough to give you what 
it takes to keep YOU coming back for more.

You see, it sure makes a damn big difference when you can look at 
a honey-pie and honestly think to yourself, "How good can this 
woman stand to feel? Let's go have fun and find out!".

Speaking of fun, another big part of being in the right frame of 
mind to make SS work is refusing to take it seriously.  By that, I 
mean you take the attitude that you are experimenting, having fun, 
and if what you try doesn't work, you've simply polished your skills 
and learned something new.

Let me illustrate this by telling you about one of my favorite 
students, David W. David is, to put it charitably, unattractive. He's 
6 foot, 270 pounds, dresses like slob on his best days, and on a scale 
of one to 10, 10 being a Greek god, he's a 3.  

David also happens to be banging four gorgeous women, all of whom are 
either aerobics instructors or tri-atheletes.

What made this success possible? Well to quote him, "I thought to 
myself, hey, since this isn't going to work, I might as well pick the 
best looking women in the gym for it to fail on and see what happens".

Because he didn't need to make it work, and took a relaxed, 
experimental attitude, he got out of his own way and is now the 
envy of his friends, who still don't believe him when he told them 
about my stuff.(Assholes)

Condition Two: Sufficient Time To Speak With Your Subject To Run A 
Minimum Of Two(Preferably Three) Patterns On Her

As I'm fond of saying, a lone pattern, by itself, is like a lone 
pirahana; nasty, but hardly deadly.

To be effective, patterns have to be run in sequences, and I strongly 
prefer to stick in a mimimum of three(see my previous newsletter 
issue for a discussion of how to do this and why it is so important).

Can you do patterns strung out over a period of time if you really 
don't have much of a chance to talk to a woman?

Sure...but your effectiveness goes WAY down.

Look at it like this; in a boxing match you could land one solid 
punch per round, for fifteen rounds, but it's much ore effective 
to slam the guy with the fifteen punches one after another.	

This is why I recommend, for example, if you're going to use Speed 
Seduction on a waitress that you go in at OFF hours, so she has 
time to talk.

Condition Three: Enough Flexibility To Get The Initial Entryway 
Into Her Neurology

When you start running patterns on a woman, the point is to find 
that initial entry into her neurology that lights her up and gets 
a strong response.

Sometimes this requires you to cycle through a few approaches.

As an example, I was having dinner with a friend who I hadn't 
seen in some time, and I was explaining to him how SS works. 

Rather than continue to try to explain, I decided to demonstrate 
on our tasty little waitress.

I started out by telling her that I had an intuition about her, that 
she was a very visual person.

What was her response? Just about zero. She showed NO interest and 
no response. Obviously, appealing to her visual imagination was not 
the doorway into her mind.

I then moved to another favorite ploy and allowed her to "overhear" 
my staged conversation with my friend, wherein I talked to him about 
how women select men for different roles, but no man can give 
everything a woman needs.

(This will often get them talking if they have a boyfriend and aren't 
happy with him, which is pretty damn often).

Again, zero response. Zip. Nada. By this time, my old friend was 
looking more and more skeptical.

Did old Ross give up...just pack it in and quit?

Not on your life, Cedric. Next time she came by the table I 
mentioned the fact that I had just been reading an article about 
how men and women connect with each other. (Here, I was trying to 
get in using the emotional doorway). No luck with this approach 
either; perhaps she just didn't know how to read and was embarrassed 
by the fact.

So by this time, I figured it was time to switch strategies. Leaning 
back in my chair, I looked at her across the restaurant, turned on my 
intuition and asked myself, "What can I notice about her that has to 
be true that I can use to make a connection?"

What I noticed in this poor, overworked food-server's case is that 
she looked tired as hell. So next time she came by the table I said, 
"You know, you sure look like you could use a vacation. If you could 
imagine your ideal vacation spot, what would it be like?"

Well, mercy's sake, wouldn't you know that at point she dropped 
straight into trance and begin to imagine her day on the perfect 
beach, soaking up the sun, feeling the warm water and the cool 
breeze?

Of course, from there, I went straight into the blow job pattern, 
talking about how interesting it was to me how people connect with 
their fantasies and desires and day dreams and about how I was just 
reading an article about the difference between compulsions and 
anticipation...

Did she respond strongly to this? Only with a super-doggie dinner 
bowl look that my Dalmatians couldn't have produced during a 
hunger-strike!(My Dalmatians would NEVER have gone on a 
hunger-strike!)

Now what is the point of this story? Just that I wouldn't have 
been able to do this if she had been terribly busy or if I had been 
in hurry and if I didn't have the ability/flexibility to keep right 
on going when the first three approaches I tried fell flatter than a 
pre-pubescent girl's chest. 

Put even more simply: it worked because there was time to talk 
and I knew how to keep going.

So look; if you're having some trouble with your Speed Seduction 
skills, chances are it's due to a problem with one of these three 
vital conditions. Pull yourself up short, take a breather and 
re-assess what you've been doing. If you've been putting yourself 
in situations that are stacked against you,(e.g., the girl's always 
too busy to talk, or your attitude is just plain fucked) re-arrange 
things so the odds are more in your favor. You'll find SS still yields 
results for you lightyears beyond anything else out there.

After all, David W. has only been able to figure out how to make 
it work for him in the gym. He still can't pick up a girl on the 
street to save his life. But with four firm, young, perfect-bodied 
athletic women to console him as they buck and writhe like mad, 
giving him their sexual all, I don't feel too sorry for him.

Go thou and do likewise.


The Mail Bag

From: "AM Randle" 
Subject: A seducing story
To: sandworm@via.net
Date: Tue, 23 Jul 1996 16:24:08 +0100 (BST)
MIME-Version: 1.0
Status:   

Ross,

It's been a while since I last e-mailed you as regards to sharing 
Speed Seduction ideas.   This idea should prove interesting.

What follows is a powerful seduction story on similar lines to 
your Discovery Channel pattern. The great thing is that in England 
people like talking about the weather (a pretty boring subject 
matter) but this can be spiced up.

You: Well where I come from we have amazing thunderstorms at this 
time of year - not just ordinary ones.Have you experienced the type 
which REALLY GRABS YOUR ATTENTION.

Her: Oh yes we get them sometimes.

You: Do you find it so moving when you are busy outside and the 
atmosphere FEELS ELECTRIC and suddenly everything stops [pause]. 
Then it starts to rain that type of rain that is WARM AND COMFORTABLE. 
Next you hear the feint rumbling which gets closer [move closer] and 
you know it's GOING TO BE BIG [having you hands on your thighs and 
moving them upwards and outwards is better than pointing at your 
gonads!].
     
You:  Its now when you FEEL LIKE GOING INSIDE [gesture your finger 
tips towards her chestwhen you can experience your senses being 
stimulated by its mighty power.Have you ever noticed that the storm's 
power is TRYING TO COMMUNICATE A MESSAGE TO YOU?

Her: Yeah, it can be scary.

You: Yes, although its power is exciting, inside you feel perfectly 
safe.Often these storms do last and keep the momentum going until 
finally when it finishes you are left with this calm and a wonderful 
experience which you can reflect on for years to come.

I amaze myself sometimes, Ross. I think there seems to be 2 (or 
maybe 3 with the pause) subtle ways of getting her attention and 1 
sneaky method of introducing a state with this pattern. What do you 
think?



Dear Andrew,

Wow! I think you Brits are too damn clever. How the hell did we 
slap your brains out and kick your ass in two wars?

Actually, this is a damn good pattern that all you Speed Seduction 
patterns should pay careful attention to. He's layering in/combining 
descriptions of intense body feelings, emotional states and he's also 
throwing in some very good sexual metaphor while he's at it.

As I've said before in my seminars and Home Study Courses(plug, 
plug, plug), if you can combine body sensations/emotional 
feelings/sexual stuff all at once, it completely overloads and 
lights up her neurology to the point where she just can't resist it. 
She HAS to get turned on as part of the overall arousal response with 
all of her neurons firing every which way.

Good job, Andrew, and an extra ration of Spam, egg, sausage and 
Spam for you!



X-Sender: mxxx@mindspring.com (Unverified)
Mime-Version: 1.0
Date: Tue, 06 Aug 1996 21:56:52 -0500
To: sandworm@via.net
From: mxxx@mindspring.com (Michael XXX)
Subject: I love You!!!!
Status:   

Dear Ross:

No, I'm not gay, I love you for teaching me this masterpiece 
called speed seduction. I've started to really dig in to your 
speed seduction stuff and its REALLY WORKING BEYOND MY EXPECTATIONS 
even though I have only used the patterns on the phone.  

It still feels really strange saying this stuff but the women I use 
it with listen very intently.  I can feel them going into a trance.

If I do patterns with a woman on the phone, what patterns are left 
to do when I meet her(that are not sexual)? Could the patterns be 
repeated with out her saying "hey, we've been through this before"?

I sometimes feel I should be running patterns continuosly throughout 
the meeting.  Is it necessary or could I simply do a short connection 
pattern when I first meet a woman?  Will this have long lasting 
effects as I justbe myself"?

Right now I feel more comfortable just getting an intense connection 
going between me and the girl before I try the sexual stuff out, but 
I'm having a ball using the connection patterns which I think will 
get me laid in and of itself.


Dear Michael,

You ask some excellent questions, dude. Before I answer them, 
congratulations on practicing the patterns in a way that feels 
comfortable for you. I highly recommend phone practice as a way 
to initially get comfortable with this stuff, and I myself continue 
to make "phone work" an integral part of my approach to SS. I find 
women are actually more susceptible on the phone, as being alone 
makes them feel more secure and comfortable as they think I can't 
tell how they'e responding.

Now to your interrogatories!  First, if you do patterns well enough 
on the phone, you won't have to do much when you meet her; in fact, 
you may not even have to meet her at all in the traditional sense! 
She may get so hot and bothered she'll want to pop round to your 
place and ride your trouser snake til the crack of dawn.

That sure would beat a poke in the eye, unless you don't know what 
she looks like, in which case I advise caution.

In any case, if you've already got her well opened up and lubed on 
the phone, why not elicit her values in a relationship when you meet 
her in person? She'll be well into already feeling very connected to 
you, thanks to your excellent phone work, and you can then simply 
repeat her values back to her and close the deal very rapidly after 
that.

Sure, eliciting values IS a pattern, but it doesn't sound like one, 
doesn't require tone shifts or pattern type language, allows you to 
sound entirely conversational, and, as an added bonus, tells you 
exactly how to behave if you really do want to continue seeing her 
in any type of long term "r..re..re..rrrr..re". 

Well, you know what I mean. I just can't say  the "r" word without 
kinda choking. But this way you don't even have to use another 
language pattern ever again if you don't want to; just behave 
according to the rules and values she reveals and you're home free.

Now, having praised you so far, one word of caution: not ALL girls 
respond to "connection" patterns. Some girls, for whatever reasons, 
are just NOT open to emotions; they are however quite open to the 
sexual stuff. I know this contradicts what I originally taught about 
ALWAYS doing the connection stuff first, but some women are just shut 
down to emotions at various times in their lives for whatever reasons.

Cycle through different approaches as I explain in this issue of the 
newsletter, see what gets the response, and go from there! 

Good luck!.



Date: Wed, 31 Jul 1996 22:33:57 -0400 (EDT)
From: LadyKiller 
To: sandworm@via.net
Subject: some suggestions
MIME-Version: 1.0
Status:  O

Hi Ross,
        
I just listened to your "slut report", which is pretty ingenious. 
See, I'm a college boy, and I just wanted to tell you that it is a 
must for any college guy.

Anyways, here are just a few tips I thought of and tried: (1) See, 
I go to a college that is infamous for girls who are dogs....there 
are only a few sexy hunnies (I knew I should have gone to Cali.) so 
in order to avoid the ugly bitches, just look in the yearbook/facebook.

Okay, now you have her name....then go to your handy-dandy campus 
phone book (which should be free at the campus center, library, or 
admissions office) and look up her name. Presto! you got your babe.
                                
Later,
LadyKiller

P.S. How come there aren't any more "get laid" newsletters on the web? 
I found out that a lot of servers DON'T carry the speed seduction 
newsgroup; even the .edu servers, which carry nearly "everything!


Dear L.K.

Geez. Just when I thought I had reached the very pinnacle of sliminess 
and sleaze, some young up-start comes along and knocks me off my perch! 
Is there no end to how low you guys will sink?

Actually, I salute your cleverness. As to your other 
questions/comments:

1. I've been very busy creating new products/material. 

2.Leave it to the powers that be on the Internet, who scream out of 
one side of their mouths about government censorship, but then 
proceed to do everything they can to knock discussion of my ideas 
right off the Net.

Well fuck 'em! Cause now technology has come to the rescue for all 
those of you who have access to the World Wide Web and Java.  We've 
created a live, Speed Seduction Chat Room link on our web site at 
http://www.seduction.com.

Just jump over to our home page, click on hot links. Then click on 
the Speed Seduction Chat Room link. You'll then be in live chat with 
other SS fanatics, and I'm on there 2 to 3 nights a week around 11PM 
Pacific Standard Time! Talk to me live, no charge!


Ross's Plug Corner

Hey! We have two seminars coming up; a special, one-day, update 
seminar in Palo Alto, California, Saturday, September 27 and our 
ONE WEEK, transformational Bahamas seminar, featuring me and my 
team of hand-picked, world class trainers! For more info, call Yates 
at 703-791-6421.							

Peace and piece,

Ross